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	~~Hi,~~
	I am not sure when apt 3 will be ready. We are in the process of converting it from oil fired steam to cold climate heat pump but we are not sure on a date given supply chain issues and waiting for a building electrical upgrade.

	~~But our friends and neighbors Matt and Karen just let us know that the other unit in their house is available. I pass on the info~~




	~~Our tenants have bought a house nearby, so the apartment in our 2-family house will be available for rent starting in September.~~

	~~Maybe you have friends that have been telling you they'd love to live in this great neighborhood, and that you think would be good tenants!~~

	~~It can be used as a 1- or 2-bedroom, rent is 2,500/month.~~
	~~Preview with some photos are here:~~
	~~https://www.zillow.com/homes/8-Parley-Vale-.num.2-Jamaica-Plain,-MA-02130_rb/2078891496_zpid/~~

	~~Please let me know if you have any leads or questions.~~

	~~Thanks!~~

	~~Matt Kanaracus~~
	~~Karen LeDuc~~
	~~8 Parley Vale~~
	~~617-522-9394~~
	--


	~~==grace consoli==~~
	I grieve the loss of our friendship. I miss having a neighbor who was also a friend. I miss the time that we spent together. I wake up sometimes with the questions I have in myself about what happened and about what I have done that caused our freindship to end. I have gone over and over things in my mind. I am at a loss.

	I had no intention of alienating you. I truly wanted to have you be comfortable as our guest. I go over the tense moments that I imagine might have offended you and wish I had been a better host and a better friend. And I wish we could figure out a way to get past whatever separates us and try again to be friends.


	~~==julianna==~~
	~~'to make sure that these kinds of plans are successful in the future'~~

	~~'this has happened before and I don't know how to communicate to you the routines we have with her and the importance to communicate with'~~

	~~Hi Julianna,~~
	Peri let me hear your voice mail to her on the day of our trip to Cape Anne. I was sad to hear how stressed out you sounded and I am sorry if dealing with you mom's Alzheimer disease has been so hard on you.

	Some things you said to Peri were troubling. Your 'make sure that these plans are successful in the future', and 'this has happened before' and 'I don't know how to communicate to you the importance of the routines you have with her' seemed a bit overreaching.

	But let me digress with a personal story. My dad just kicked the bucket leaving my 87 year old mom on her own for the first time since she was like 23. Now I've got 7 siblings who I dearly love but even before my dad's ashes had cooled down there was a hue and cry from all of them about how she couldn't stay in the house, couldn't go the North Carolina for the winter, needed a 'I've fallen and I can't get up monthly service', shouldn't drive, couldn't go up the stairs anymore, should move into this institution in this daughters state, should sell the house yada yada yada. Everyone wanted to manage her, or not really wanted to, they just felt that they should.

	I was with my mom and my sister Megan making the rounds of the funeral home, the Catholic church, the cemetery arranging all the details when my mom said, hold on guys, I want to take a detour here. She took us to the club where she plays golf. All the lady golfers were there and and my mom joined them. She introduced Megan and I but nobody was all that interested in who we were and they turned their attention to my mom. We sat on the side for forty minutes while they chatted about their golf games, their aches and pains, there dead or almost dead husbands. They talked about the weather, the winter, real estate, what they were going to do next and what their kids were pushing them to do instead.

	I am happy that my mom has a group of friends she can hang out with. You should be happy your mom has friends that she can hang out with. You seem to have a very strained idea of a successful plan. Granted that is your right you can and should do what you think is right for your mom but don't be surprised that we differ. We are not part of your manage your mom program, we are just friends who love her. We were happy to be with our friend today and we love the things she noticed, her motivation to jump in for a swim behind Cranes, to just be chatting experiencing the present moment in Gloucester harbor.

	By comparison your program for you mom often seems dreadful. The fake boring work at Rogerson house, the kowtowing to the agency and the curmudgeonly pick-up-from-Rogerson-house lady seems like nonsense; find someone happy to have a free hour every now and then. That Peri can't see her friend on Monday, can't walk her around the pond and then home all seems bizarre.

	We ask that you try to understand that your mom management is not the end all and be all. Your mom has a right to spend time with her friends. We are happy to help her be sure to take her meds while we are together.

	~~==Dentist re: crown==~~

	~~===to: Grace Min, D.M.D.===~~
	~~===617 524 4401===~~
	~~====from: Tim McKenna====~~
	~~====617 524 0938(h), 857 498 2574(m) tim@sitebuilt.net====~~

	You seemed kind of busy without time to discuss my treatment options. I did get an explanation from the receptionist that a crown was needed since now the tooth would be brittle. Somehow I am less than assuaged. My experience with crowns is periodontal disease, open margins, only lasting about 10 years with eventual extraction of 3/4 of the crowned teeth. All that chopping away to get a place for a post to sit seems very extreme, a waste of enamel.

	~~# What are my options?~~
	~~# Are there other possible treatments? stronger fillings? inlay/onlay?~~
	~~# Why not fill it see how it lasts for maybe 5-10 yrs? I think the tooth next to it was root canaled and filled about 25 years ago.~~
	~~# Are there things I could do to preserve it. I stopped chewing ice years ago, maybe I could stop eating nuts.~~
	~~# How bad is the down side? So I eventually break off a piece, couldn't I do the crown then?~~

	My dental experience to date has been dismal. (What's left of) my teeth are terrible. I feel that some decisions that were foistered upon me by dentists were not really in my best interest. I would like to work with more of an informed consent. I need a well reasoned, cost effective plan. If you prefer not to have me as a patient, I am fine with that.

	~~I live about a block away, I could come in to talk for a couple of minutes at your convenience. You can email me at tim@sitebuilt.net or call 617 524 0938(h), 857 498 2574(m).~~

	~~Tim McKenna~~

Tim at 13:03, 15 July 2022

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			Hi,
			I am not sure when apt 3 will be ready. We are in the process of converting it from oil fired steam to cold climate heat pump but we are not sure on a date given supply chain issues and waiting for a building electrical upgrade.

			But our friends and neighbors Matt and Karen just let us know that the other unit in their house is available. I pass on the info




			Our tenants have bought a house nearby, so the apartment in our 2-family house will be available for rent starting in September.

			Maybe you have friends that have been telling you they'd love to live in this great neighborhood, and that you think would be good tenants!

			It can be used as a 1- or 2-bedroom, rent is 2,500/month.
			Preview with some photos are here:
			https://www.zillow.com/homes/8-Parley-Vale-.num.2-Jamaica-Plain,-MA-02130_rb/2078891496_zpid/

			Please let me know if you have any leads or questions.

			Thanks!

			Matt Kanaracus
			Karen LeDuc
			8 Parley Vale
			617-522-9394
			--


	==grace consoli==		==grace consoli==
	I grieve the loss of our friendship. I miss having a neighbor who was also a friend. I miss the time that we spent together. I wake up sometimes with the questions I have in myself about what happened and about what I have done that caused our freindship to end. I have gone over and over things in my mind. I am at a loss.		I grieve the loss of our friendship. I miss having a neighbor who was also a friend. I miss the time that we spent together. I wake up sometimes with the questions I have in myself about what happened and about what I have done that caused our freindship to end. I have gone over and over things in my mind. I am at a loss.

Tim at 08:55, 28 March 2017

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	==grace==		==grace consoli==
	I grieve the loss of our friendship. I miss having a neighbor who was also a friend. I miss the time that we spent together. I wake up sometimes with the questions I have in myself about what happened and about what I have done that caused our freindship to end. I have gone over and over things in my mind. I am at a loss.		I grieve the loss of our friendship. I miss having a neighbor who was also a friend. I miss the time that we spent together. I wake up sometimes with the questions I have in myself about what happened and about what I have done that caused our freindship to end. I have gone over and over things in my mind. I am at a loss.

Tim at 08:49, 28 March 2017

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			==grace==
			I grieve the loss of our friendship. I miss having a neighbor who was also a friend. I miss the time that we spent together. I wake up sometimes with the questions I have in myself about what happened and about what I have done that caused our freindship to end. I have gone over and over things in my mind. I am at a loss.

			I had no intention of alienating you. I truly wanted to have you be comfortable as our guest. I go over the tense moments that I imagine might have offended you and wish I had been a better host and a better friend. And I wish we could figure out a way to get past whatever separates us and try again to be friends.


	==julianna==		==julianna==
	'to make sure that these kinds of plans are successful in the future'		'to make sure that these kinds of plans are successful in the future'

Tim: /* julianna */

2016-08-08T13:29:30Z

julianna

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	By comparison your program for you mom often seems dreadful. The fake boring work at Rogerson house, the kowtowing to the agency and the curmudgeonly pick-up-from-Rogerson-house lady seems like nonsense; find someone happy to have a free hour every now and then. That Peri can't see her friend on Monday, can't walk her around the pond and then home all seems bizarre.		By comparison your program for you mom often seems dreadful. The fake boring work at Rogerson house, the kowtowing to the agency and the curmudgeonly pick-up-from-Rogerson-house lady seems like nonsense; find someone happy to have a free hour every now and then. That Peri can't see her friend on Monday, can't walk her around the pond and then home all seems bizarre.

	We ask that you try to ~~leave some room in~~ your mom management ~~for her~~ to spend time with her friends. We are happy to help her be sure to take her meds while we are together.		We ask that you try to understand that your mom management is not the end all and be all. Your mom has a right to spend time with her friends. We are happy to help her be sure to take her meds while we are together.

	==Dentist re: crown==		==Dentist re: crown==

Tim: /* julianna */

2016-08-08T13:27:14Z

julianna

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	I was with my mom and my sister Megan making the rounds of the funeral home, the Catholic church, the cemetery arranging all the details when my mom said, hold on guys, I want to take a detour here. She took us to the club where she plays golf. All the lady golfers were there and and my mom joined them. She introduced Megan and I but nobody was all that interested in who we were and they turned their attention to my mom. We sat on the side for forty minutes while they chatted about their golf games, their aches and pains, there dead or almost dead husbands. They talked about the weather, the winter, real estate, what they were going to do next and what their kids were pushing them to do instead.		I was with my mom and my sister Megan making the rounds of the funeral home, the Catholic church, the cemetery arranging all the details when my mom said, hold on guys, I want to take a detour here. She took us to the club where she plays golf. All the lady golfers were there and and my mom joined them. She introduced Megan and I but nobody was all that interested in who we were and they turned their attention to my mom. We sat on the side for forty minutes while they chatted about their golf games, their aches and pains, there dead or almost dead husbands. They talked about the weather, the winter, real estate, what they were going to do next and what their kids were pushing them to do instead.

	I am happy that my mom has a group of friends she can hang out with. You should be happy your mom has friends that she can hang out with. You seem to have a very strained idea of a successful plan. Granted that is your right you can and should do what you think is right for your mom but don't be surprised that we differ. We are not part of your manage your mom program, we are just friends who love her. We were happy to be with our friend today and we love the things she noticed, her ~~ability~~ to jump in for a swim behind Cranes, to just be chatting experiencing the present moment in Gloucester harbor.		I am happy that my mom has a group of friends she can hang out with. You should be happy your mom has friends that she can hang out with. You seem to have a very strained idea of a successful plan. Granted that is your right you can and should do what you think is right for your mom but don't be surprised that we differ. We are not part of your manage your mom program, we are just friends who love her. We were happy to be with our friend today and we love the things she noticed, her motivation to jump in for a swim behind Cranes, to just be chatting experiencing the present moment in Gloucester harbor.

	By comparison your program for you mom often seems dreadful. The fake boring work at Rogerson house, the kowtowing to the agency and the curmudgeonly pick-up-from-Rogerson-house lady seems like nonsense; find someone happy to have a free hour every now and then. That Peri can't see her friend on Monday, can't walk her around the pond and then home all seems bizarre.		By comparison your program for you mom often seems dreadful. The fake boring work at Rogerson house, the kowtowing to the agency and the curmudgeonly pick-up-from-Rogerson-house lady seems like nonsense; find someone happy to have a free hour every now and then. That Peri can't see her friend on Monday, can't walk her around the pond and then home all seems bizarre.

Tim: /* julianna */

2016-08-08T13:25:03Z

julianna

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	I am happy that my mom has a group of friends she can hang out with. You should be happy your mom has friends that she can hang out with. You seem to have a very strained idea of a successful plan. Granted that is your right you can and should do what you think is right for your mom but don't be surprised that we differ. We are not part of your manage your mom program, we are just friends who love her. We were happy to be with our friend today and we love the things she noticed, her ability to jump in for a swim behind Cranes, to just be chatting experiencing the present moment in Gloucester harbor.		I am happy that my mom has a group of friends she can hang out with. You should be happy your mom has friends that she can hang out with. You seem to have a very strained idea of a successful plan. Granted that is your right you can and should do what you think is right for your mom but don't be surprised that we differ. We are not part of your manage your mom program, we are just friends who love her. We were happy to be with our friend today and we love the things she noticed, her ability to jump in for a swim behind Cranes, to just be chatting experiencing the present moment in Gloucester harbor.

	By comparison your program for you mom often seems dreadful. The fake boring work at Rogerson house, the kowtowing to the agency and the curmudgeonly pick up from Rogerson house lady seems like nonsense; find someone happy to have a free hour every now and then. That Peri can't see her friend on Monday, can't walk her around the pond and then home all seems bizarre.		By comparison your program for you mom often seems dreadful. The fake boring work at Rogerson house, the kowtowing to the agency and the curmudgeonly pick-up-from-Rogerson-house lady seems like nonsense; find someone happy to have a free hour every now and then. That Peri can't see her friend on Monday, can't walk her around the pond and then home all seems bizarre.

	We ask that you try to leave some room in your mom management for her to spend time with her friends. We are happy to help her be sure to take her meds while we are together.		We ask that you try to leave some room in your mom management for her to spend time with her friends. We are happy to help her be sure to take her meds while we are together.

Tim: /* julianna */

2016-08-08T02:51:19Z

julianna

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	I was with my mom and my sister Megan making the rounds of the funeral home, the Catholic church, the cemetery arranging all the details when my mom said, hold on guys, I want to take a detour here. She took us to the club where she plays golf. All the lady golfers were there and and my mom joined them. She introduced Megan and I but nobody was all that interested in who we were and they turned their attention to my mom. We sat on the side for forty minutes while they chatted about their golf games, their aches and pains, there dead or almost dead husbands. They talked about the weather, the winter, real estate, what they were going to do next and what their kids were pushing them to do instead.		I was with my mom and my sister Megan making the rounds of the funeral home, the Catholic church, the cemetery arranging all the details when my mom said, hold on guys, I want to take a detour here. She took us to the club where she plays golf. All the lady golfers were there and and my mom joined them. She introduced Megan and I but nobody was all that interested in who we were and they turned their attention to my mom. We sat on the side for forty minutes while they chatted about their golf games, their aches and pains, there dead or almost dead husbands. They talked about the weather, the winter, real estate, what they were going to do next and what their kids were pushing them to do instead.

	I am happy that my mom has a group of friends she can hang out with. You should be happy your mom has friends that she can hang out with. You seem to have a very strained idea of a successful plan. Granted that is your right you can and should do what you think is right for your mom but don't be surprised that we differ. We are not part of your manage your mom program we are just friends who love her. We were happy to be with our friend today and we love the things she noticed, her ability to jump in for a swim behind Cranes to just be chatting experiencing the present moment in Gloucester harbor.		I am happy that my mom has a group of friends she can hang out with. You should be happy your mom has friends that she can hang out with. You seem to have a very strained idea of a successful plan. Granted that is your right you can and should do what you think is right for your mom but don't be surprised that we differ. We are not part of your manage your mom program, we are just friends who love her. We were happy to be with our friend today and we love the things she noticed, her ability to jump in for a swim behind Cranes, to just be chatting experiencing the present moment in Gloucester harbor.

	By comparison your program for you mom often seems dreadful. The fake boring work at Rogerson house, the kowtowing to the agency and the curmudgeonly pick up from Rogerson house lady seems like nonsense, find someone happy to have a free hour every now and then. That Peri can't see her friend on Monday, can't walk her around the pond and then home all seems bizarre.		By comparison your program for you mom often seems dreadful. The fake boring work at Rogerson house, the kowtowing to the agency and the curmudgeonly pick up from Rogerson house lady seems like nonsense; find someone happy to have a free hour every now and then. That Peri can't see her friend on Monday, can't walk her around the pond and then home all seems bizarre.

	We ask that you try to leave some room in your mom management for her to spend time with her friends. We are happy to help her be sure to take her meds while we are together.		We ask that you try to leave some room in your mom management for her to spend time with her friends. We are happy to help her be sure to take her meds while we are together.

Tim: /* julianna */

2016-08-08T02:49:36Z

julianna

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	Peri let me hear your voice mail to her on the day of our trip to Cape Anne. I was sad to hear how stressed out you sounded and I am sorry if dealing with you mom's Alzheimer disease has been so hard on you.		Peri let me hear your voice mail to her on the day of our trip to Cape Anne. I was sad to hear how stressed out you sounded and I am sorry if dealing with you mom's Alzheimer disease has been so hard on you.

	Some things you said to Peri were troubling. Your 'make sure that these plans are successful in the future, and 'this has happened before and I don't know how to communicate to you the importance of the routines you have with her' seemed a bit overreaching.		Some things you said to Peri were troubling. Your 'make sure that these plans are successful in the future', and 'this has happened before' and 'I don't know how to communicate to you the importance of the routines you have with her' seemed a bit overreaching.

	But let me digress with a personal story. My dad just kicked the bucket leaving my 87 year old mom on her own for the first time since she was like 23. Now I've got 7 siblings who I dearly love but even before my dad's ashes had cooled down there was a hue and cry from all of them about how she couldn't stay in the house, couldn't go the North Carolina for the winter, needed a 'I've fallen and I can't get up monthly service', shouldn't drive, couldn't go up the stairs anymore, should move into this institution in this daughters state, should sell the house yada yada yada. Everyone wanted to manage her, or not really wanted to, they just felt that they should.		But let me digress with a personal story. My dad just kicked the bucket leaving my 87 year old mom on her own for the first time since she was like 23. Now I've got 7 siblings who I dearly love but even before my dad's ashes had cooled down there was a hue and cry from all of them about how she couldn't stay in the house, couldn't go the North Carolina for the winter, needed a 'I've fallen and I can't get up monthly service', shouldn't drive, couldn't go up the stairs anymore, should move into this institution in this daughters state, should sell the house yada yada yada. Everyone wanted to manage her, or not really wanted to, they just felt that they should.

Tim: /* julianna */

2016-08-08T02:48:43Z

julianna

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	I am happy that my mom has a group of friends she can hang out with. You should be happy your mom has friends that she can hang out with. You seem to have a very strained idea of a successful plan. Granted that is your right you can and should do what you think is right for your mom but don't be surprised that we differ. We are not part of your manage your mom program we are just friends who love her. We were happy to be with our friend today and we love the things she noticed, her ability to jump in for a swim behind Cranes to just be chatting experiencing the present moment in Gloucester harbor.		I am happy that my mom has a group of friends she can hang out with. You should be happy your mom has friends that she can hang out with. You seem to have a very strained idea of a successful plan. Granted that is your right you can and should do what you think is right for your mom but don't be surprised that we differ. We are not part of your manage your mom program we are just friends who love her. We were happy to be with our friend today and we love the things she noticed, her ability to jump in for a swim behind Cranes to just be chatting experiencing the present moment in Gloucester harbor.

	By comparison your program for you mom often seems dreadful. The fake boring work at Rogerson house, the curmudgeonly pick up from Rogerson house lady. That Peri can't see her friend on Monday, can't walk her around the pond and then home all seems bizarre.		By comparison your program for you mom often seems dreadful. The fake boring work at Rogerson house, the kowtowing to the agency and the curmudgeonly pick up from Rogerson house lady seems like nonsense, find someone happy to have a free hour every now and then. That Peri can't see her friend on Monday, can't walk her around the pond and then home all seems bizarre.

	We ask that you try to leave some room in your mom management for her to spend time with her friends. We are happy to help her be sure to take her meds while we are together.		We ask that you try to leave some room in your mom management for her to spend time with her friends. We are happy to help her be sure to take her meds while we are together.